{"id":14731,"date":"2016-07-13T17:22:52","date_gmt":"2016-07-13T21:22:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.newspapers-online.com\/auroran\/?p=14731"},"modified":"2016-07-13T17:22:52","modified_gmt":"2016-07-13T21:22:52","slug":"41-years-on-a-proud-daughter-celebrates-a-lasting-family-legacy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newspapers-online.com\/auroran\/41-years-on-a-proud-daughter-celebrates-a-lasting-family-legacy\/","title":{"rendered":"41 years on, a proud daughter celebrates a lasting family legacy"},"content":{"rendered":"

By Brock Weir
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\nIt\u2019s rare the occasions when Kay O\u2019Neil\u2019s sister Kerry makes eye contact but, when she does, she makes it count. <\/p>\n

Recently, the sisters were sitting at the table of Kerry\u2019s Orangeville residence when she locked eyes on Kay, leaned in and said, \u201cKay, I am happy.\u201d
\nThose four small words packed a punch and after they parted, tears streamed down her face the entire ride home.
\n\u201cAt first we felt guilty and the guilt is gone,\u201d Kay recalls. \u201cWhat a relief.\u201d<\/p>\n

You might not know the full story of Kerry O\u2019Neil, but you probably recognize her name \u2013 even if you don\u2019t know it. She is the Kerry behind the Aurora-based Kerry\u2019s Place Autism Services and her elder sister Kay is here to tell her story.<\/p>\n

Kay was on hand for the annual Volunteer Appreciation Day for Kerry\u2019s Place, held at Town Park on Sunday in conjunction with Art in the Park. <\/p>\n

As she looked out over the sea of volunteers, clients and artists assembled for the occasion, which marks the service organization founded 41 years ago, Kay was awestruck.<\/p>\n

Things have come a long way in the subsequent four decades, but now Kay is on a mission to shed light on the foundations of Kerry\u2019s Place with her new book \u201cThe Birth of Kerry\u2019s Place: Canada\u2019s First Treatment Centre for Persons with Autism.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cI just wanted to document the history for my own family as it\u2019s part of our family history,\u201d she says. \u201cThen I realised while I was doing the history that all of the founding members of Kerry\u2019s Place weren\u2019t mentioned collectively anyplace. I wanted to honour the original staff of Kerry\u2019s Place and how hard they worked integrating the clients into the community.\u201d<\/p>\n

Kerry\u2019s Place has its foundations in Clarksburg, ON, on the O\u2019Neil family farm.<\/p>\n

For years, their mother and father had been trying to find out what was wrong with their youngest daughter, but were at a loss at where to find answers.<\/p>\n

\u201cThey knew she was different, but they knew she wasn\u2019t \u2018mentally retarded\u2019 and they knew that it wasn\u2019t poor parenting,\u201d says Kay. \u201cThey went from place to place, from doctor to doctor, trying to find answers and she wasn\u2019t diagnosed until she was 17. A few others had been diagnosed by that time, but they were a lot younger than Kerry and they all lived in Toronto.<\/p>\n

\u201cWhen she was diagnosed, mum and dad were put in touch with a group of parents and they were all told to institutionalize their children and they weren\u2019t going to accept that at all. They wanted a better life for their children. [The other parents] saw Kerry wasn\u2019t being institutionalized and she was doing well on the farm, so they got this idea that maybe it would be a nice setting for their children.\u201d<\/p>\n

Their father set to work building an addition onto the farm house, while the group approached the Ontario Government, got the resources to undertake feasibility studies to get the staffing in place and ultimately Ministry approval. Thus, Kerry\u2019s Place was born. <\/p>\n

From there, it expanded to multiple residences, each bearing the names of the children of the founding families but as the original Kerry\u2019s Place reached international renown, they came together under that original banner. <\/p>\n

\u201cNever in their lifetime did the founding members think it would grow the way it did,\u201d says Kay. \u201cThey were just hoping that they would open the farm, be able to help their own children and secure the program, and some others along the way, and hopefully there would be a cause identified and a cure. Everyone is very humbled it has grown as it has and I really felt it was important the audience knew about those people as a group and the contribution they made to society. I am proud it is named after my sister. It is quite a legacy for my children, my grandchildren, my nieces and nephews. <\/p>\n

\u201cNot having a need for Kerry\u2019s Place [41 years from now] would be the ideal, but it would be nice to see more needs met. The waiting list is so long. I just wish they could find a cause. It would be wonderful if Kerry\u2019s Place wasn\u2019t needed 10 years from now let alone 40 years from now. But the right people came together at the right time.\u201d<\/p>\n

Ms. O\u2019Neil\u2019s book is available now for $20 and is available by emailing the author at koneil2010@hotmail.com.<\/p>\n\"Facebook\"<\/a>\"twitter\"<\/a>\"mail\"<\/a>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

It\u2019s rare the occasions when Kay O\u2019Neil\u2019s sister Kerry makes eye contact but, when she does, she makes it count. <\/p>\n

Recently, the sisters were sitting at the table of Kerry\u2019s Orangeville residence when she locked eyes on Kay, leaned in and said, \u201cKay, I am happy.\u201d
\nThose four small words packed a punch and after they parted, tears streamed down her face the entire ride home.
\n\u201cAt first we felt guilty and the guilt is gone,\u201d Kay recalls. \u201cWhat a relief.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":14694,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[4,5],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-14731","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-general_news","category-news"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/www.newspapers-online.com\/auroran\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/2016-07-14-03.jpg","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p3D2k4-3PB","publishpress_future_action":{"enabled":false,"date":"2026-04-22 23:04:57","action":"change-status","newStatus":"draft","terms":[],"taxonomy":"category","extraData":[]},"publishpress_future_workflow_manual_trigger":{"enabledWorkflows":[]},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newspapers-online.com\/auroran\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14731","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newspapers-online.com\/auroran\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newspapers-online.com\/auroran\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newspapers-online.com\/auroran\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newspapers-online.com\/auroran\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=14731"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newspapers-online.com\/auroran\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14731\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newspapers-online.com\/auroran\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/14694"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newspapers-online.com\/auroran\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=14731"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newspapers-online.com\/auroran\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=14731"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newspapers-online.com\/auroran\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=14731"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}